You live in an abundant universe of endless creative possibilities. So the good news is... whatever you desire, you can have.
The other news is... You can't have what you want unless you're free not to have it. More precisely: you can only have it to the degree that you're free not to have it.
For example, if you want to feel successful as a parent, get free to fail as a parent. Why? Because if you're resisting failure, your mind is focused on what you don't want, and whatever you focus on becomes your experience. (That's the Law of Attraction.)
As soon as you decide that you're free to fail, you stop resisting failure, and that frees your mind to focus on creating success.
The more you feel free to fail, the easier it is to succeed... Go figure! :)