The Daily Groove

Going Along for the Ride

Here's something you can try if your child enjoys riding "piggyback"...

When you're both in a good mood, offer your child a piggyback ride. But don't lift him/her up; instead, kneel down and let your child climb onto your back.

Also, don't try to "entertain" your child (i.e., pretending to be a horse, etc.). Just walk from point A to point B and let the ride itself be the entertainment.

After doing this a few times, your child will begin to recognize your "piggyback mounting position" as an invitation for a ride.

Now you have a "tool" that's especially good for helping your child shift from one flow to another. Instead of saying, "Stop playing; it's time to go," you won't have to say anything — just assume the inviting position and your little rider will eagerly come on board!

(As you can see from the photo at www.enjoyparenting.com, my kids and I really enjoy this mode of transportation!)

Appreciation

Dear Scott,
I really appreciate these little practical ideas that you use to get through the day more joyfully. I just read this one tonight, and am delightedly thinking of working it into our daily routine! The theory stuff is interesting and mind-expanding, but these little gems rock!

PS: Am so looking forward to your talk here in Corvallis tomorrow!