The Daily Groove

Worry Less, Love More

Perhaps you've been led to believe that worrying about children goes hand in hand with loving them. But in truth, parental love is far more powerful without worry than with it.

Worries focus all your attention on what you don't want and put you in a state of fear. This sends a message to your child that you expect bad things to happen. And since children naturally tend to meet their parents' unspoken expectations, worries are self-fulfilling prophecies.

Today, if you catch yourself worrying, don't worry about it. :)

Instead, use your awareness of worry to shift your focus in the direction of what you do want, and reach for thoughts that soothe your worries:

"It's not the end of the world."
"It won't last forever."
"I've successfully handled worse situations."
"We always find our way."
...etc.

Before long you'll start feeling hopeful, and you'll feel your heart opening, too. An open heart is all you need for love to flow unconditionally... unhindered by worries.

Re: Worry Less, Love More

The email w/this article came at a great time for me. I tend to be a worrier and it's not always about parenting - work is a big source of worry and stress for me. Things have been particularly trying at work lately and reading this reminded me that persistent worry is not a necessary part of my existence, even when things are not going the way I would like. I even shared some of the thoughts with my coworker.

Thanks!